Blog Entries

The Erotic Rockstar's Orgasms: PART ONE

Destingerek@gmail.com — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 08:00:00 +0100

I spent the first decade and change of my sex-life focused on how to be the most amazing, talented giver that I could possibly be. And Damn did I get good at playing that role! I learned high quality touch skills. I learned ambidexterity and how to use my mouth, both hands, and my cock. Even simultaneously if I chose. I learned literally dozens of unique ways of petting a pussy. I learned about presence. I learned how to hold space through crygasms. I even learned how to handle two (or more) wom [...]

Getting your way with her vs. Enticing her desire

Destingerek@gmail.com — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 08:00:00 +0100

Men are being trained to feel like they need to convince, connive, or coerce a woman into being sexual with them. Perhaps somewhere deep down inside, not fully believing that women do, in fact, have sexual desire. Entice that desire rather than force your will.

Allow her the gift of being able to fully feel her desire for you, and her desire to be sexual with you. Her desire to open to you. Allow that lotus flower to blossom. It’s petals opening. You don’t get a flower to blossom by fo [...]

Listen to a FREE Intro to Orgasmic Mastery call

Destingerek@gmail.com — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 08:00:00 +0100

Click the link below to listen to a FREE Intro teleclass for the Orgasmic Mastery course:

http://www.orgasmicmastery.com/media/OMfreeIntro082609.mp3

The Erotic Rockstar's busy Summer projects

Destingerek@gmail.com — Mon, 13 Jul 2009 08:00:00 +0100

I'm busy as fuck these days (such that I'm writing this at 2am on a Monday).

I just launched this course which has proven to be a MAJOR undertaking. It's been incredibly time consuming to build (curriculum, the technology, the business end), but certainly worth it, as I am quite happy with what is being created.

http://OrgasmicMastery.com (obviously)

On top of that, I am teaching the Erotic Spirituality weekend intensive with my colleague, Triambika, at [...]

Watch The Erotic Rockstar on Penn&Teller: Orgasms!

Destingerek@gmail.com — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 08:00:00 +0100

Watch The Erotic Rockstar on Penn & Teller's season opener episode on Orgasms!

http://www.sho.com/site/video/brightcove/series/title.do?bcpid=14033851001&bclid=26973387001&bctid=27108873001 486x412

Or watch the FULL half-hour episode with much more of The Erotic Rockstar here:

http://www.milkandcookies.com/link/167810/detail/

What makes a woman beautiful?

Destingerek@gmail.com — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 08:00:00 +0100

I was asked this question by a writer for The RAY (Radiant Authentic You), a spiritually-based women's magazine.

Here's my reply:

If you ask me, a woman's beauty has less to do with the genetics of her physical form, and more about the radiance of her inner essence. And one thing that I have found, is that when a woman is truly radiating from her core inner essence, her outward form literally becomes more beautiful. She starts to shine. Her smile is more than the edg [...]

Downloadable Recording from 1st Teleseminar

Destingerek@gmail.com — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 08:00:00 +0100

Here's the recording from the first intro teleseminar for Orgasmic Mastery.

The breakout groups are NOT recorded. You have to be on the calls for that experience.

Right-click on the link below, and choose: Save As

(Apple-click on a Mac)

http://www.orgasmicmastery.com/media/OMweek1call.mp3

OM Course launches today! Free Teleseminar tonight!

Destingerek@gmail.com — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 08:00:00 +0100

Today the course officially launches!

Tonight I will be hosting a FREE teleseminar to give a taste of what the course will be like.

I'll be posting the first video tutorials some time today (the editing has been a bit more time consuming than I realized it would be).

I look forward to having you on the call tonight.

Sedona, LA, San Diego, Baja MX, and Beyond!

Destingerek@gmail.com — Fri, 15 May 2009 08:00:00 +0100

I'm in the midst of a monthlong teaching tour/roadtrip/travel adventure.

Last weekend, I presented at the annual Daka/Dakini Conference in Sedona, AZ, to a packed room of over 100 tantra teachers from around the country.

http://www.sedonatemple.com/2009-dd-west-presenters#destingerek

The response was PHENOMENAL! Extremely encouraging as I prepare to
launch the upcoming, "Orgasmic Mastery: A Course for Men" home-based
learn [...]

Worst/Best Manhandling

Destingerek@gmail.com — Wed, 06 May 2009 08:00:00 +0100

A freelancer friend of mine contacted me about a piece she's writing for Glamour magazine. She posed the question: What is the worst and best 'man-handling' you've experienced?

It seems she is defining man-handling as 'hand/cock' interaction.

Here's my reply:

Let's just say that in my 31 years on this planet, I've gotten around. Yet, I have one instance that particularly stands out as worst. This was almost 9 years ago. I had just moved to SF (the first ti [...]

Test Blog

Destingerek@gmail.com — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 08:00:00 +0100

I've been having a great time developing this course. After 12 years of trial and error exploring these areas in my own life, I have now created a systematized 12-week course to help other men gain Orgasmic Mastery for themselves.